For Churches — OneDay Counseling & Coaching

The church is on the front lines of mental and emotional health care — often without the tools to respond well.

Pastors encounter men struggling with sexual brokenness, families fractured by unprocessed wounds, leaders who cannot name what they feel, and congregants who have been told to pray harder when what they needed was someone who understood both Scripture and the human person.

Dr. Ruel Tyer brings clinical training and biblical depth together in a way that is accessible, practical, and genuinely useful for local churches. These offerings are not one-size-fits-all content — they are developed from years of counseling practice, pastoral engagement, and the conviction that all human understanding can be held within the light of Scripture.

Talks, Trainings & Groups for Your Church

Talks & Workshops

The Molding and Shaping of Masculinity

Talk 60–90 min

Who is shaping the men in your church — God's Word, or the culture? Drawing from 40+ years of sociological research on gender and masculinity alongside a robust biblical framework, this talk challenges men to examine whose words have formed them and what it means to pursue godly manhood with intention. Men leave with greater self-awareness and a clearer path forward.

Ideal for: Men's ministry, retreats, young adult groups
Format: Talk with group discussion
Topics covered: History and sociology of masculinity · How masculine identity is formed · Masculine ideology vs. biblical manhood · What to do with what you discover

How to Biblically View Our Emotions

Talk 25–45 min

Most people relate to their emotions in one of two unhealthy ways — either they are controlled by them, or they suppress them. This talk offers a third way, rooted in Scripture and supported by current research in attachment theory and emotion science. Framed within the biblical narrative of Creation, Fall, Redemption, and Restoration, participants learn to bring their emotional lives honestly before God.

Ideal for: Sunday classes, young adult groups, women's events, life group leader training
Format: Talk with discussion
Topics covered: Biblical theology of emotions · How our stories shape our emotional lives · Attachment theory and its biblical parallels · A practical framework for engaging emotions with God

Mental Health Through a Biblical Lens

Workshop 45–60 min

Christians are often shaped more by a Western cultural view of mental health than a biblical one — treating suffering as something to escape, and emotions as either weakness or absolute truth. This workshop directly challenges that framework, developing a robust biblical theology of mental and emotional health that equips participants to care for themselves and others with greater wisdom and compassion.

Ideal for: Pastoral staff, campus fellowships, life group leader training
Format: Workshop with discussion
Topics covered: The Western/medical model and its limits · Biblical theology of suffering · How emotions reveal deeper questions about God (Dan Allender, Peter Scazzero) · Practical tools for engaging mental and emotional health with spiritual maturity

Counseling & Coaching: A Biblical Process

Half-Day Class 4 hours

What does it look like to care for people through a counseling and coaching lens that is grounded in Scripture and informed by the best of clinical practice? This half-day class — developed for Riverstone Church's School of Ministry — walks participants through the framework, methodology, and practical approach used at OneDay, including teaching, small group discussion, and case study work.

Ideal for: Schools of ministry, elder/deacon training, pastoral care teams
Format: Half-day class with breaks, discussion, and case study
Topics covered: Counseling vs. coaching · The integration model · Narrative and inner parts approaches · A biblical understanding of emotions · Couples and attachment · Case study practice
Facilitated Groups

Unwanted: A Men's Group on Sexual Purity

12-Session Group 3 months

Sexual brokenness is one of the most silenced struggles in the church — and the standard "lust management" response has left men more ashamed and more stuck. This 12-session facilitated group takes a fundamentally different approach: rather than declaring war on desire, it invites men to understand their sexual brokenness as a convergence of their past story, their wounds, and the spiritual assault on their dignity as image bearers of God. Real freedom begins with curiosity, not condemnation.

Ideal for: Men's ministry, recovery ministries, pastoral care programs
Format: 90 min/week · 6–10 men · Custom workbook included
Month 1 — How did I get here? Theology of unwanted sexual behavior, family systems, abandonment, trauma, sexual abuse
Month 2 — Why do I stay here? Core experiences, hijackers of the soul, patterns of protection
Month 3 — What does freedom look like? Restoration, identity, moving forward
Professional Training

A Christian Perspective of IFS: Integration & Practice

Training Half-Day

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is one of the most widely used therapeutic models today — and it integrates remarkably well with a Christian understanding of the human person. This training provides a thorough biblical framework for understanding parts, protectors, exiles, and the Self, and equips participants to bring IFS language into clinical and pastoral care settings with theological clarity.

Ideal for: Christian counseling practices, lay counselor teams, faith-based clinical staff
Format: Half-day training with discussion and practice
Topics covered: IFS model overview (parts, protectors, exiles, Self) · Biblical framework for a broken inner system · Dignity and depravity (Genesis 3) · Scriptural basis for parts, exiles, and protectors · Where Schwartz and Scripture converge and diverge · Introducing IFS language to clients

Integrating Christianity & IFS: Bringing Jesus into the Inner System

Training Half-Day

The follow-on to Part 1, this training moves from framework to practice. Participants learn how to target protective parts, draw them out, and invite Jesus to engage and unburden parts in session. The training addresses the unique discipleship dimension of IFS-informed Christian care — how to lead clients toward Christ rather than merely symptom relief — and includes guided practice exercises throughout.

Ideal for: Those who have completed Part 1, or clinicians already familiar with IFS
Format: Half-day training with guided practice
Topics covered: Targeting and befriending protective parts · Inviting Jesus to engage and unburden a part · Caring for exile parts · Discipling parts toward Christ · Realistic expectations of sanctification in the IFS process

Is This Right for Your Church or Organization?

Looking for substantive, biblically grounded content for men's ministry
Navigating how to care for members struggling with mental or emotional health
Training life group leaders, deacons, or lay care teams
Running a school of ministry or leadership development program
Seeking a structured, facilitated group for men wrestling with sexual brokenness
A counseling practice looking to train staff in integrative approaches to Christian care
Wanting to address topics the congregation is asking about but hasn't had the bandwidth to develop
A campus fellowship or young adult ministry seeking content that is intellectually honest and spiritually deep

Clinically trained. Biblically based.

We believe that all human discovery and understanding — including the best of psychology, neuroscience, and clinical research — can be understood through the lens of Scripture. We hold clinical training and biblical faithfulness together, not in tension.

Our work draws from the Integration model of biblical counseling, narrative therapy, Internal Family Systems, and attachment theory — always returning to Scripture as the authoritative guide. We are not simply presenting information. We are inviting churches into a process of formation.


Bring Dr. Tyer to Your Church

Reach out to inquire about availability or schedule a brief call to discuss which offering might best serve your congregation or organization.